Well I'm proud to be a part of a community of "steps" and not crabs.
Steps?
Yeah, authors who hold one another up during the good times and the not so good times. Authors who celebrate each others achievements as if they were our own.
Sidebar: When my friend and fellow author, Donna Hill found out from me via email that I had finally found a home for my novel Glorious -she was so happy for me that she created a joyful noise at her desk (she was at work) and then sent me a bouquet of flowers as a congratulatory gift.
We spread the word about our colleagues new releases, new additions to the family as well as those family members that God has drawn back to his bosom.
*moment of silence*
We do this because we respect each other as people, colleagues and artist. We do this because we are bound by this gift of writing and because no matter what illusion the industry has perpetrated in order to divide and dismiss - the bottom line is that we're all in this together.
We inspire each other to reach for the stars and remind one another that the only limits in our lives are the ones we place on ourselves.
Example:
This year at the Harlem Book Fair, Author, Margaret Johnson Hodge made a statement that she did not want to write anymore. It was sad thing to hear. She confided to me that she felt she had nothing to offer the readers. She said she feared that her melody (muse) had abandoned her.
Why was she feeling this way?
Well the climate of the AA literary market played a large part. It seems as though the people we fashion our stories around only want to read one or two types of books. Of course that is not true - it's all part of the illusion.
When Margaret learned that I had secured a book deal - this after some editors declared that my career was dead - she called me up to tell me that she was inspired, that her melody had returned and she she was back to making beautiful music again!
The lesson she learned was that her first allegiance is to herself and not the demands the industry places on us.
Can I hear a AMEN!!!
I write for me. I write for my ancestors (they are the best part of me), I write the books that I want to read and because I do that - I make it good for you!
I was over joyed to hear that Margaret had found her muse and humbled that she felt I played a small part in that.
Sometimes we help people without even setting out to perform a specific act of assistance.
Ain't that cool?
Steps...... that's what it's all about ya'll.
*I know the title of this blog is gender specific - but please know that the brothers are included in this as well*




18 comments:
Priceless. I needed to read that, feel that and receive it in my spirit. . .
Thank you.
I have to say as a new author I have met 2 authors that have made constant attempts to hurl insults and block opportunities for reasons that are unknown to me. STRANGE!
But more importantly, I have met a ton of fabulous angels who are authors, and publishers and artist who have shined and showed the way.
I make every attempt to show love to authors especially newbies (newer than me *hee hee*)
I had a rocky start and I believe it wasn't for me! it was for the knowledge and the even the labor pains so I can that I can provide a kind word, share a resource, buy a book! and maybe help somebody...
I know what it feels like to lose your melody - i never want to be on the sending end of that...
Hey Bernice.
Again I thank you. I thank you for not only inspiring me, but for sharing what I was going through. My hope is that someone who is going through what I went through finds their way back too.
You are truly appreciated...
Margaret Johnson-Hodge
"The lesson she learned was that her first allegiance is to herself and not the demands the industry places on us." - I need that needle-pointed on a pillow!
Always wonderful wisdom and lesson. As Shakspeare once said "To thine own self be true"
Hadn't heard about Glorious! What wonderful news! We are thrilled for you. We often use your story and your blogged rejection letters when we are talking to readers about the state of AA Lit. "If an amazing writer like Bernice can't get a deal for her literary fiction..." Now we'll have to modify the example--and that makes us happy!! And we understand what Margaret Johnson Hodge was talking about--and say all the time "It's hard out here for a writer..." I (Virginia) thought about quitting back in 2005, but Donna wouldn't let me. Frustration with the "new direction" "they" wanted us to go was the main reason. The game has changed so much and sadly, not for the better, especially for us. But enough bitching. So happy for you! WooHoo!!
Brava!
V&D
What a beautiful, beautiful post Bernice! Congratulations to you and the other authors who stand by this creed. It is so disappointing to see authors tear each other down.
A special congrats on finding a home for Glorious too. I will definitely be looking forward to the release. And I'm also happy to hear MJH will continue to bring her fans more stories.
Do keep us posted!
-Tee
This is a great blog. I wish everyone felt this way...
Oh my, this was soooo on time! Thank you so much for posting this, because it is so true and accurate!!!!
Congrats to you on finding a home for your "baby".
As a self-published author, the support of other authors both self-published and mainstream, is so important to me. Likewise, I try to be the same way. In my view, if the sky's the limit, then there's enough room for everybody right?
You not only inspired her, but others as well with this post. We have to support one another and encourage one another--because we are in this together.
Bernice, what an excellent blog, and congratulations for finding a home for Glorious! That is fantastic news! It is a blessing that you serve as an inspiration for MJH and so many others of us who are keeping our eyes on the prize while uplifting each other. I too, am working to be a "step." Thank you!!
Peace,
Trice Hickman
I've preached for so long about tithing back to your literary community by helping each other out that I'm almost ... and i said, ... almost tired of hearing myself talk.
Thank you so much Bernice for posting this and showing paying it forward works and its a wonderful blessing for yourself
Amen again and again. What a wonderful, inspiring post. Thanks for sharing.
Wonderful post. Congrats on your contract (I think I said that already) and on inspiring Ms. Hodge to return to writing. (I love her stuff.) Inspiration to those of us coming behind...
Amen. Chicki Brown sent me the link to your blog and I'm bookmarking it. I'm going through the blues, too. No book contract in 4 years, so I'm happy to hear a success story.
Gosh! Thanks guys -- I'm so glad that this hit a "good" nerve...! :) Onward and Upward ya'llllllllllllllll - Berniceoel
Post a Comment